The Collar      The collar is a symbol. It does not have to be made of gold, silver or even leather. The collar is the symbol of a commitment, however it is not the important part of a commitment. The collar shows the rest of the world that you belong to someone. The collar is only an outward sign of an inward experience - an experience that encompasses one's commitment of mind, body and soul to another. The collar is a symbol that represents a commitment that you belong totally and completely, no doubts or reservations as completely as one can give of one's self to another. The collar, when worn, represents a Dom/me's pride of the slave - a sign of that ownership. An ownership that entails doing as another wishes - when and how they wish.      The collar is a symbol. The REAL collar is inside the soul of the sub/slave. When you wear a collar, and wear it proudly, you are showing the rest of the world a symbol of that commitment. You represent your Dom/me when you wear your collar proudly in the way you carry yourself, the way you look, the way you talk and the way in which you relate to others. Every action and reaction, every word that you speak reflects on your Dom/me.      You earn your collar, not by merely asking for it, but by your actions which show that you are a deserving slave - one which is worthy of wearing your Dom/me's collar. The collar represents a sub/slave that has worth and value as well as the self-esteem, strength and the ability to serve his/her Dom/me being a gift of pleasure to the Dom/me and His/Her friends as your Dom/me wishes and when your Dom/me wishes. The collar is a constant reminder of who you are. The collar tells everyone that you are a sub/slave, you belong to someone, you are His/Her property and you serve only your Dom/me. When you serve someone and wear His/Her collar you are showing love, obedience and dedication. The collar is a symbol that your love, dedication and obedience make you very special. ~*~author unknown~*~

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