Subspace


Subspace - This term generally is used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike condition
experienced by persons in the submissive position in a D/s relationship during interaction with
the person in the Dominant position in the relationship.

Topspace - I will start by regarding top space or normal space. This is operational ground
zero. The submissive in top space often appears quite aggressive, assertive and dominant. They
will be hustling their children off to school, dominating their Dominant mate by organizing
him/her off to work, cleaning and straightening the house, sending themselves off to work or
to take care of business. They are the Commander of the ship, the General of the Army.
Hustle, hustle, hustle. This is a submissives TOP SPACE.

Marginally Down Space - This space occurs when the Dominant in the relationship
directs attention at the submissive. This may be a glance, a light touch, a small sound or any
combination of these triggers. This marginal appearing contact drops the submissive out of top
space into a state of waiting and/or listening for command. She stops. Generally she will cease
talking even in the midst of a comment. She may stop moving. She will generally attempt
direct eye contact with her Dominant to see if he/she has a direction or command for her. If
nothing further occurs she will most likely re-top. Or, go back to full functional top space. If
the Dominant mentally presses...she will generally descend further into space.

Sprite Space - Some submissives will squirm and utterly deny that this space exists. They
will swear to you that they don't have it, it doesn't exist and they would never perpetrate
mischief. Hmmm. Essentially just under or into down space there is a space where the
submissive will test the Dominants attention, desire and will to control her. She may unclip
cuffs, slide out of assigned position - all in total innocence. She didn't hear that command, the
blindfold muffled her ears...etc... Note: If she notes that the Dominant doesn't catch her action
she will feel he isn't paying her attention, therefore doesn't love her (mind of women at work).

Blonde Space - Now, as the submissive descends into space her IQ tends to diminish in a
progressive fashion. Many submissives will tell you that their up person is off to the side
watching everything. They, will feel themselves getting slower mentally. I call this blonde
space <DUCKING blondes non-peroxide the>In blonde space the submissive has trouble with
rational thought. If you ask her if something is uncomfortable she is likely to say "I dunno".
The truth is - she doesn't know. At this point she is not capable of distinguishing danger to
herself, she cannot and will not utilize any safe word - it become incomprehensible to her. In
her mind, she has you the Dominant, she loves and trusts you, you won't let anything happen
to her.

Sub-Vocal Or Primal Space - Sometimes the Dominant and the submissive penetrate
what I call the sub-vocal barrier. The submissive in this space loses her submissive nature. If
you intend to take her there have her well tied. As she drops through into this deep space she
can and will get feral. Her voice becoming primal grunts and sounds, her eyes may alter, she
will he hypersensitive to sound, light, movement. She will be fast and very dangerous. She can
and will claw you, bite you or toss you into a wall if you are a small man. In a sense she is
tapping into ancient primal body language. She becomes a predator barely submitting. If she
senses any weakness in your control she will attempt to take you out. She cannot ever utilize
safe words here. She cannot remember how to articulate human speech.
These are the basic levels of subspace. Prior to beginning an exploration of subspace the
Dominant and submissive should have intensive conversations about what she may expect and
how she may feel. The Dominant should set up a sequence of escape words. This should be a
simple question that would never occur in common life. Something such as "What color is
your left big toe?" Her auto-UP UP UP response might be "My left big toe is orange!"
<GIGGLE>Essentially this question asked at any time is her command to fast up or come to
TOP SPACE NOW!!!
This escape question should be practiced multiple times until it becomes automatic. I
included the <GIGGLE>for a very important reason...submissives in down space seldom
laugh. Their ability to laugh and giggle seems to diminish as their focus intensifies on their
Dominant in space. By requiring the <GIGGLE>as well, the Dominant is assured that the
submissive has returned to top space. Note: this command should only be used in a problem
situation. For regular activities in subspace the submissive needs and desires to be 'caught' by
the Dominant gently and allowed to return to top space in a normal way...this can take hours
of after play cuddling.


Some basic information:
Never ever leave your submissive alone in space unless you wish to risk severe potential
problems... You are her sole connection to reality. If you leave her alone she is likely to be
terrified. She will return to top space at some point and may never forgive you for leaving her.
Always keep your commands simple and direct. In space she will obey but comprehension
is limited. Never impose responsibility on her for any aspect of the play. If you want
interaction stay in Marginal Space or Sprite Space (sometimes known as Sammy Space). In
any other down space she will not communicate well verbally. She may be unable to articulate
your name at all.
Talk to her in a reassuring fashion if penetration of subspace is new - she may be
frightened. The further into space she goes the higher the chems pump into her blood stream
and generally the more intensive the play can become. For a first timer, you need to tell her
that subspace exists, what it is and how it may feel to her. She will desire to please you and
open to seek this space. She must feel that you know what you are doing even if you do not.
She must be convinced that she is utterly safe with you.
Penetration of the different levels will vary for many reasons. Some people can only go so
far. They have inhibitors. Often the penetration may occur over many months as the level of
trust increases and the submissive relaxes into new experiences. You should not expect full
flight from the beginning.