Tying-up and the Art of Making Love. To be tied up as a part of the art of making love is merely to extend the sense of touch. There are parts of the human body which are more flexible than others; wrists, ankles, knees, waist and so on, and it is at these points we find high concentrations of nerve endings. Any form of physical restraint must be applied to these same points which send contradictory impulses to the brain. Biologically, the sexual act is one of physical domination, with all species of animals, not just human beings. Male over female, and as in the wild, mating may include rough play and feigned elusiveness, but within the overall context of mutual pleasure and desire. Our civilized minds say no to any form of domination, sexual or otherwise, while primitive urges actively encourage the use of pleasure games as an additional sexual stimulant. Sex is often a rough and tumble between normal couples. Wrestling, biting chasing - all may be used within an innocent framework of a loving relationship between free thinking adults, and it is short step to take between fighting and token subjection to actual physical restraint. It is a move which removes your partner's freedom of choice, taking her into the twilight world of unwilling intercourse. Know your lover and be constantly aware of her every reaction as you snap on a pair of handcuffs on her slim wrists and then draw her legs up so that her wrist and ankles are chained together. You observe the cold, glittering steel against tanned skin and her body wriggling with thinly disguised pleasure at the mixed up feelings of love and hatred churning around in her brain, muscles straining against the relentless steel which holds her un thrall, fingers reaching and probing in fertile gestures, toes stretching in spasm with her trapped legs. Aware of no actual pain, she is tied cleverly so that she feels no actual pain, yet has the acute sensation of both suffers all the torments of the prisoner in bondage, yet the torments drawn from within herself. Torments of passion and desire inextricably linked with those of suffering and humiliation. She is the prisoner of your creation, bound to you and by you. You have given her lead, shown her that bondage is beautiful and that you care for her emotional and physical well being by raising her response threshold so that she awareness by surrendering herself totally in this way. Again, you have shown her something that she needs, even though there was no previous awareness. A gift is yours to give. Mistress Michelle

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